Episode 28

Defining your Worth

In today's episode of the Becoming the Big Me Podcast Djemilah dives into the power of defining your worth and the magic that ensues when you do. Are you owning your value?

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Transcript
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And here's the thing. Your ideal quantum clients will see your

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worth. Your ideal quantum clients are going to be happy

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and excited to invest in you and your business. Hello, fellow

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Earthlings.

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Welcome to the becoming

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the big me podcast. I'm your host, Djemilah, Birnie. And

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together, we will be stepping into our highest potential,

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exploring all things mind, body, and soul. With justice, major

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business, your spiritual badass solopreneur and a warrior for

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change, you're ready to expand your impact and leave your old

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self behind in order to raise your vibration so that you can

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positively influence your business, your community, and

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ultimately, the world. Without further ado, let's dive right

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into it.

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This episode was originally recorded as an online training.

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So if you hear any clicks, or you hear me refer to homework,

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that is why don't worry, there's no homework that you miss.

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But the information is extremely powerful. So I decided to pop it

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on to the podcast and I know that you will receive value from

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this

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episode,

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defining your worth.

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It all starts

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with belief. What do you believe that you are worthy of when you

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are dealing over with metaphysics when you are dealing

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with the quantum hologram of our universe, every single thing

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comes back to belief. What do you believe at your core to be

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available to you? What do you believe that you are worthy of

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having only you can define your worth you are the only person

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who has the ability to define what you get to have out of this

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human experience out of this life of yours. Only you get to

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decide that I know that it can be hard when you You're coming

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with price objections and people are going to question your

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worth. But that is based on their own scarcity of mindset

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that is based on their own perception of reality that is

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based on their own beliefs of what they are worth. Stop

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listening to the limiting beliefs of others. It has

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nothing to do with you. Other people's opinion of you are none

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of your business. It only matters what your beliefs are of

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you. And here's the thing, your ideal quantum clients will see

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your worth your ideal quantum clients are going to be happy

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and excited to invest in you and your business. And you need to

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set the standard of what your worth is you need to set the

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standard of what you are worth. In money terms you are you need

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to set the standard of what your time is worth and you also need

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to set the standard of how you deserve to be treated. Your

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quantum clients are going to treat you like the queen or king

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that you are. They are going to be excited to work with you

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they're not going to try and make you feel bad. Let's talk

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about the crab pot syndrome. It can be hard when you are

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stepping into a higher vibrational state when you are

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changing your life when you are earning more income. It can be

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hard because the people that have been around you up until

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this point might not understand the changes that you're going

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through. When there are people who have been around you since

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high school, who have had a very Similar past experience to you,

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and they start to watch you rise above and they start to watch,

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you create more and more with your life. The typical response

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is to try to pull you back down to their level, this is not a

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conscious thing. This is a subconscious thing. Because the

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higher that you climb the list they feel they can relate to

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you. And it also triggers them subconsciously, about their own

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self. If they see someone that came from the same background as

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them doing more than them, then subconsciously, they're going to

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start to feel a little bit bad about their own self. Now,

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obviously, that is not the proper belief, the proper belief

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is to think, Wow, if they can do it, then I can do it too. But in

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this world, generally, that's not how it works. So what is the

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crab pot syndrome? So the crab pot syndrome is an analogy used

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by

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I heard it first from my mom, actually, and what it is, I grew

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up on an Indian reservation and on this reservation, crabbing

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was huge. And when you go out and there people are crabbing,

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you'll see that they have this little pot with crabs in it. You

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know, the crabs can easily climb out of this pot, they could

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easily climb back into safety out of this pot, but they don't.

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And do you want to know why? When one crab starts to get this

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wild, crazy idea that it can climb out of this pot, the other

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Crabs will pull it back down into the pot, the other Crabs

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will not allow that crab to leave the pot, even though being

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in that pot is going to lead to their doom in their death, they

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will pull it back down into the pot. And this is what happens in

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our lives, with our relationships and with our

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friendships. Sometimes people will try to pull you back down

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to be with them with where they are at. Because that is how

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they've always known you. That's where they are comfortable

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having you. It is so important to define your worth when it

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comes to your business. Because you only want to work with

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people who also see your worth. If other people are questioning

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your worth, and then your business your product, your

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service is not for them. So what are you worth? What is your time

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worth? What are you worthy of having only you get to decide

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that only you get to choose what you are worthy of the moment

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that you give up the belief that you aren't worthy is the moment

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that everything becomes possible for you. You are literally

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capable of creating anything that you want you are capable of

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having the business of your desires, you are capable of

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having the client of your desires, you are worth it. The

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only thing that is holding you back is this glass ceiling that

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you have built for yourself in your subconscious mind. The only

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thing in the way of you and what you want

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at the end of the day

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is your beliefs about what you can have. This is why it is so

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important. If you want to attract your ideal quantum

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clients. If you want to have this profitable business where

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you get to live your purpose where you get to do the work

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that you love to do where you get to do what lights your soul

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on

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fire.

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You need to start in side you need to start with what are your

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beliefs about money do you believe you are worthy of having

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it? What do you believe having a lot of money means what are

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those internal programs They have been created throughout

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your lifetime to bring you to those beliefs, and how can you

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redefine them? How can you begin to make the shift to change your

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beliefs. The first step is to decide to decide that you want

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to change and decide that you are worthy and to decide that

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you

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can

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have it all. That is the very, very first step. It is the

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internal work that needs to be done first, so that you can

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begin to make the changes in

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your external

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reality to make it come true. You cannot just sit back and

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define your worth and say I'm worthy, and I am a millionaire.

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And I have all of this money, you have to take the physical

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actions as well. But it needs to start with the belief. And that

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is why this first week has all been about money. What are your

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beliefs about money? Where did they come from? How did they

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show how has money showed up in your life up into this point?

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And how are you showing up for money? When you begin to make

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these changes when you begin to make these small shifts in your

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belief, your external reality is going to change as well.

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Thank you for tuning into today's episode of The becoming

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the big me podcasts. If you found value in today's episode,

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make sure to leave us a review and share this episode with

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someone who needs to hear this message. That's how our podcast

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that bit.li slash rewire challenge. Until next time. I'm

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your host Djemilah Birnie, signing out

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